Paul Stanley recently reflected on his relationship with late KISS guitarist Ace Frehley. He shared candid remarks during an event covered by The Rock Experience with Mike Brunn.
During a Q&A at the Kiss Kruise: Land-Locked in Las Vegas event, Stanley acknowledged the complexities of his relationships with the band’s founding members. He emphasized their irreplaceable contributions to KISS’s legacy.
“It’s no secret — we had lots of differences with Ace, lots of differences with [original KISS drummer] Peter [Criss]. But that’s family,” Stanley said. “This whole KISS monument was built with a foundation of those guys. We couldn’t have started it without them, and we couldn’t continue it with them, but it doesn’t change [their contributions].”
Stanley also reflected on Frehley’s enthusiasm for recent honors and his approach to life. “He was so thrilled with the idea of going to the Kennedy Center,” Stanley continued. “We miss him, and I hope he lived the kind of life he wanted to. He was one of a kind and he was wild, and he did say if his life ended tomorrow, he’d have no regrets because he lived the kind of life he wanted to.”
Stanley concluded with a broader reflection on legacy and fulfillment. “That’s all we can expect from any of us — when it’s over, hopefully we’ve had the kinds of lives that we wanted. That’s what I wish for all of you — just don’t go too soon.”
Stanley’s remarks come at a poignant moment for the legendary rock band. Frehley passed away in October 2025, leaving behind a complex but undeniable legacy within KISS. Despite the well-documented tensions between band members over the decades, Stanley’s words underscore a deeper truth: the foundation of KISS was built by these pioneering musicians. Their contributions remain irreplaceable regardless of personal conflicts.
Ultimate Guitar reported that Paul Stanley has consistently reflected on his relationship with Frehley. He acknowledged their differences while celebrating their shared history. This nuanced perspective reveals the maturity with which Stanley approaches the band’s internal dynamics—recognizing that creative partnerships, especially those spanning decades, are rarely without friction.
The Kennedy Center Honors, scheduled for December 7, 2025, will serve as a significant milestone for KISS. It will also be a bittersweet tribute to Frehley’s memory. American Songwriter noted that an empty seat will be reserved for Frehley at the ceremony, symbolizing his enduring presence in the band’s legacy. Gene Simmons and Paul Stanley have both expressed their sadness that Frehley will not be physically present to share in this honor. This makes the event carry deeper emotional weight this year.
Blabbermouth documented Stanley’s continued reflections on his relationship with Frehley. He emphasized hope that the guitarist lived the life he wanted. He also praised his unique talent and spirit. These tributes underscore the ongoing respect and affection the band members have for Frehley, even in his absence.
The KISS Kruise event where Stanley made these remarks has become a platform for the band to honor Frehley’s memory. Chaoszine reported that KISS paid tribute to Frehley during recent events, including the KISS Kruise. The band honored his memory and reflected on his contributions to rock and roll history. These tributes cement his place in the annals of rock music.
